Don’t you think it’s very amazing when you could listen whatever you allow other person to speak.
Well, it’s a matter of few strategies which could use to do same in a different style.
Example- if I wanted to know to whom your friends love (Even I don’t have any idea)?
Then I could ask with a smile with raised eye brow and my mouth would be open as I have some idea about his/her relationship.
“I have listened that you are going around………with…..?
Obviously he/she will say “NO”.
Then keep on trying to tease your friend and after few minutes you will get the answer. Remember your face expression should be near surprising face.
Try it & catch the tongue.
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
Sunday, February 1, 2009
See into eyes
One common thing all legendry personality has that they know what kind of person they are dealing with and in what way. As we know, it’s pretty difficult to project human behavior yet we could understand it and would be ready with a solution before problems arise.
How is it possible?
The simple answer is lies in your observing capability of behavior. There are a lot of books and even you can join class for it. These are good resource of fundamental knowledge. Then your classes start with test in your locality.
It’s very crazy to predict the situation in its earlier stage. Yes, it is possible. We can reach to near the original situation which is going to happen. But there is lot permutation and combination, we are supposed to use.
This is the only way by which we can make happy our relatives , fellows and dearest one. Words hardly speak; it’s the body which reflects real GAME of emotions.
Trust on body language despite the language of mouth.
How is it possible?
The simple answer is lies in your observing capability of behavior. There are a lot of books and even you can join class for it. These are good resource of fundamental knowledge. Then your classes start with test in your locality.
It’s very crazy to predict the situation in its earlier stage. Yes, it is possible. We can reach to near the original situation which is going to happen. But there is lot permutation and combination, we are supposed to use.
This is the only way by which we can make happy our relatives , fellows and dearest one. Words hardly speak; it’s the body which reflects real GAME of emotions.
Trust on body language despite the language of mouth.
Saturday, January 31, 2009
Happiness- which rarely stay in life
Since our birth, we are looking restlessly for different reason and sources of happiness. Sometimes we succeed or failed. If succeed then still there is fear of losing the pleasure. On the other hand if we failed, then we recharge ourselves for the battle of winning happiness. Happiness could be a matter of sexy wife {whom you are also afraid because of being watched by your fellows and neighbor and sometimes feel happy that you have something special}, car {which hardly requires in great good days or in bad events} or a big home {where we hardly stay with our family, only husband, wife and children [if you have planned] } etc. List is too small yet never ending indeed.
Amazing thing is that happiness never lies in materialistic things; it lies in our view which enables us to see towards these things. So where is the need of all these things? I am not saying that we shouldn’t try to have these possessions; I am talking about race of over possession. It is pretty difficult to understand how much we want? Or how much is enough? Some says growth is synonyms of life. I agree it is. But where are the true recipients of this achievement. We are so busy in making money, we forget real needs our parents, friend and relatives. When we give some expensive gifts to our dearest ones, we feel very proud “It is possible just because of my MONEY”. A father wants to spend sometimes with his son/daughter. Yes, they have some expectation. They feel that whatever they couldn’t do in their life. Their son/ daughter will achieve that. It’s just like a reflection of parent’s dreams. On the other hand they want to celebrate their son/daughter achievement with neighbors, so that they can show “See it’s my Son/daughter”. There is nothing wrong this is the way society function because society trained us to get some productive things from us in form of different services. Society hardly respects the persons those dare to dream of crazy things which are not available at that time. Society will appreciate you when it would start to getting benefit of your achievement.
We are coded and well designed by nature from which we can’t escape. Smartness lies in understanding the process of nature and play with it. Play doesn’t mean that “to be happy in this life, you should become hippie”. Learn things and ignore irrelevant things which could cause you to hurt in short or long term and make your life happier than ever before.
So where is happiness?
It is in our mind “The way we react.”
It is pretty difficult to understand all emotions in one shot. So wait for next GAME.
Amazing thing is that happiness never lies in materialistic things; it lies in our view which enables us to see towards these things. So where is the need of all these things? I am not saying that we shouldn’t try to have these possessions; I am talking about race of over possession. It is pretty difficult to understand how much we want? Or how much is enough? Some says growth is synonyms of life. I agree it is. But where are the true recipients of this achievement. We are so busy in making money, we forget real needs our parents, friend and relatives. When we give some expensive gifts to our dearest ones, we feel very proud “It is possible just because of my MONEY”. A father wants to spend sometimes with his son/daughter. Yes, they have some expectation. They feel that whatever they couldn’t do in their life. Their son/ daughter will achieve that. It’s just like a reflection of parent’s dreams. On the other hand they want to celebrate their son/daughter achievement with neighbors, so that they can show “See it’s my Son/daughter”. There is nothing wrong this is the way society function because society trained us to get some productive things from us in form of different services. Society hardly respects the persons those dare to dream of crazy things which are not available at that time. Society will appreciate you when it would start to getting benefit of your achievement.
We are coded and well designed by nature from which we can’t escape. Smartness lies in understanding the process of nature and play with it. Play doesn’t mean that “to be happy in this life, you should become hippie”. Learn things and ignore irrelevant things which could cause you to hurt in short or long term and make your life happier than ever before.
So where is happiness?
It is in our mind “The way we react.”
It is pretty difficult to understand all emotions in one shot. So wait for next GAME.
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